Question:
“I live in a small community. My biggest challenge is I am always seeing my ex and the woman he had an affair with and married on a weekly basis because of the children’s activities. I feel like I can’t “get over” my divorce because I am kept inflamed constantly in the present.”
Answer:
Living in a [...]

Divorce is a painful experience, even if it was your choice to end the relationship. Being able to thrive after divorce is determined in large part by where do you live, but I’m not talking about your physical address. Where does your mindset predominantly live – in the past, present, or future? Are you living [...]

Has your divorce or separation left you in an emotional tailspin? Would you like to become a master of your emotions, once and for all?
Then join me Tuesday, September 16 at 6pm pacific/9pm eastern for my THRIVE Community call as me and my special guest, Colleen Hoffman Smith, answer your questions about how to regain [...]

Question
“My biggest challenge is in not understanding where my wife’s decision to separate is coming from. I feel like I’ve been totally blindsided.”
Answer 
In many cases of divorce, someone decides to pull the plug on the marriage first. It can be very painful if you didn’t see it coming and are the one who is left [...]

Are you familiar with the phrase “The shortest distance between two points is a straight line?” While this may be true in math or drawing, it is not true in the journey of healing your heart after divorce.
When dealing with our emotions, progress is definitely not linear. It’s more like one step forward, two steps [...]