Q. My children mean everything to me. I have always had a great relationship with them…how do I maintain a healthy relationship with my children when their mother tells them that divorcing her proves I do not love them?
A. It is a sad reality that children get caught in the emotional cross-fire between their parents [...]

Q. “How do you deal with your ex-husband’s mood swings? One day he is pleasant, the next day he is cold.”
A. Ah, yes, this is definitely a part of the emotional roller coaster ride that divorce offers! Not only do your emotions hit some highs and lows, but you ask a great question about how [...]

Question:
“What do you do when resolution is slow? In my case, we decided almost 2 years ago to divorce, but are still in the same house with the “For Sale” sign in the front yard. Limbo sucks! I’ve tried every healthy approach possible. It’s tough to be grateful, patient and sane!”
Answer:
I hear your frustration! I [...]

Question:
“Three years down the road, why am I still soooo angry at the betrayal of my husband?”
Answer:
Thank you so much for your honesty in asking this question and, if I may, I’ll give you a blunt answer. You’re still angry because you are getting something out of holding on to your anger. There is some [...]