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	<title>Thrive After Divorce</title>
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	<description>Thrive after Divorce offers successs strategies for seperated and divorced individuals.  Carolyn B. Ellis, divorce coach and author of The 7 Pitfalls of Single Parenting: What to Avoid to Help Your Children Thrive After Divorce, shares tips, resources, and coaching expertise.</description>
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		<title>Divorce and Discovering the Keys to Happiness</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/10/01/divorce-and-discovering-the-keys-to-happiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 03:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Divorce and unhappiness seem like they go together well, like chocolate and peanut butter. Going through a divorce is definitely an emotionally wrenching experience, even if you were the one who decided to leave. Yet so many divorcees seem unable to shed that unhappiness and sadness, allowing the loss of that one relationship to color [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Divorce and Discovering the Keys to Happiness", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/10/01/divorce-and-discovering-the-keys-to-happiness/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce and Revenge - What to Do?</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/10/01/divorce-and-revenge-what-to-do/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 03:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Question:
“I still have feelings of anger and revenge towards my ex, and we separated over a year ago now. I feel stuck and let his decision to end our marriage cloud my perspective. How do I let go of this?”
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		<title>Divorce in a Small Town</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/18/divorce-in-a-small-town/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 04:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Question:
“I live in a small community. My biggest challenge is I am always seeing my ex and the woman he had an affair with and married on a weekly basis because of the children’s activities. I feel like I can&#8217;t &#8220;get over&#8221; my divorce because I am kept inflamed constantly in the present.”
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Living in a [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Divorce in a Small Town", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/18/divorce-in-a-small-town/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce and Your Mindset: 5 Tips to Being Here Now</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/18/divorce-and-your-mindset-5-tips-to-being-here-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 04:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Divorce is a painful experience, even if it was your choice to end the relationship. Being able to thrive after divorce is determined in large part by where do you live, but I’m not talking about your physical address. Where does your mindset predominantly live – in the past, present, or future? Are you living [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Divorce and Your Mindset: 5 Tips to Being Here Now", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/18/divorce-and-your-mindset-5-tips-to-being-here-now/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Thrive Community Call</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/12/thrive-community-call-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/12/thrive-community-call-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 16:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Motivation &amp; Mindset]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Self-Care]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Teleseminar]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Has your divorce or separation left you in an emotional tailspin? Would you like to become a master of your emotions, once and for all?
Then join me Tuesday, September 16 at 6pm pacific/9pm eastern for my THRIVE Community call as me and my special guest, Colleen Hoffman Smith, answer your questions about how to regain [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Thrive Community Call", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/12/thrive-community-call-2/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Divorce: How to Handle Being Dumped</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/03/ask-thrive-after-divorce/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/03/ask-thrive-after-divorce/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:10:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Question
“My biggest challenge is in not understanding where my wife’s decision to separate is coming from. I feel like I’ve been totally blindsided.”
Answer 
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		<title>Divorce: Stop Sabotaging Your Healing Process</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/03/divorce-stop-sabotaging-your-healing-process/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you familiar with the phrase “The shortest distance between two points is a straight line?” While this may be true in math or drawing, it is not true in the journey of healing your heart after divorce.
When dealing with our emotions, progress is definitely not linear. It’s more like one step forward, two steps [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Divorce: Stop Sabotaging Your Healing Process", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/03/divorce-stop-sabotaging-your-healing-process/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Living with Purpose and Passion: Part 2</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/02/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/02/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 16:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you living with purpose and passion? As I shared in my last issue, I have been moved to look at what life lessons I could learn after attending the funeral of an inspiring, loving teacher and mother who lost her battle with leukemia. It was a shocking loss and I looked for the wisdom [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Living with Purpose and Passion: Part 2", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/09/02/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-2/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>Living with Purpose and Passion: Part 1</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/08/29/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-1/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/08/29/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 15:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s nothing like attending the funeral of someone special to shift your perspective. Recently one of my daughter’s favorite teachers passed away suddenly after battling leukemia for two years. She left behind a grief-stricken husband and three young children ranging in age from 3 to 13. Although we were really just acquaintances, she definitely touched [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "Living with Purpose and Passion: Part 1", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/08/29/living-with-purpose-and-passion-part-1/" });</script>]]></description>
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		<title>FirstWivesWorld.com - A Great Resource for You</title>
		<link>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/07/26/firstwivesworldcom-a-great-resource-for-you/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/07/26/firstwivesworldcom-a-great-resource-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 03:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great new divorce resource that&#8217;s hit the internet: FirstWivesWorld.com. It&#8217;s like a one-stop shopping center of information to help people in any stage of divorce. They found me online (through my divorce podcast, Divorce101Show.com) and I&#8217;m honored that they have asked me to become a contributing expert! My first article, called &#8220;Time to [...]<script type="text/javascript">SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "FirstWivesWorld.com - A Great Resource for You", url: "http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2008/07/26/firstwivesworldcom-a-great-resource-for-you/" });</script>]]></description>
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